Story Charts is a website that sets about "visualizing the structure of a story," using all kinds of nifty charts, graphs, tables and whatnot. Eternal Sunshine is on there (subheaded "Love as Fate and Willing Acceptance"), and it's a doozy. Here's a little sample:

 

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There's a PDF you can download, too.

Thanks to Johnny!

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